Dating letter to a girl

Dating letter to a girl


Featured image Lulu Lovering We took a ride with Chromeo around NYC while they told us what they cant live without on the road. We choose to be in relationship because we like you, not because we cant live without you. Dont expect us to take a day off on a moments notice just because you bought tickets to a baseball game at 1 PM on a Tuesday. Independence will never trump the desire to feel adored. We get very frustrated with extremely needy, co-dependent people. Im perfectly capable of chatting it up with endless amounts of strangers. This frustration may make us seem callous or icy, but its more about wanting to see people help themselves. We like to fix things ourselves and will usually bring a step stool over to get things off of high shelves, even if youre way taller. At times, we may seem so self-reliant, content and in control that you may wonder whether youre needed in our lives. We dont need a date to feel comfortable at these things. Tell us we look pretty every now and then and dont let us shrug it off. Funfair Night Who's in for a fun evening of tasty ice cream, popcorn, thrills, and nonstop carnival action? We dont mind splitting restaurant bills with you. If we do, we feel odd and uncomfortable until we pay you pack. Were not depending on you to be our sugar daddies. We dont mind if you dont call or text us every second. Let us try it our own way first, even if your intentions are good. If its not on a birthday or an anniversary, it feels like a bribe. We know how to save money and are actively interested in planning for our own retirement. If we have a sleep over, dont expect me to cuddle you all night and cook you a hot breakfast. If you happen to be one or more of these things, we will love you even more. In fact, it makes us feel like we dont owe you anything. We are capable of going to the bathroom by ourselves. We sign up and attend charity events, races, and cultural exhibits on our own. Actually, we prefer it, on occasion, because it gives us the chance to catch up with our own friends or spend the night catching up on our independent interests. We can clean up our own messes. If you want to go watch football or to happy hour with friends, were cool with that. We work because we want our own career. The idea of getting married sounds great with the right person. A little each day and more than a little on other days. We are confident and directed but cherish someone who appreciates, rather than fears, these qualities. That said, if youre late, dont keep us guessing as to when youll show up as well make other plans. We are comfortable paying our own way and will feel funny if you constantly insist on treating us. But were perfectly capable of taking care of ourselves if need be. It doesnt mean weve lost interest in you. If we go to a party where its mostly your friends, I dont need you hovering.