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This summer Pew reported that 37 percent of all recent Asian-American brides wedded a non-Asian groom. Junot Diaz describes it as white supremacy. Theres that old saying: the devils greatest trick is that he convinced people that he doesnt exist. But it's also because we still see ourselves as minorities, immigrants, outsiders. Videos » Group » Asian » Hardcore » Interracial 06:57 1,398 free views 4 weeks ago 08:05 582 free views 3 weeks ago 04:57 1,146 free views 3 days ago. In an earlier study of the couples who married in 2008, 9 percent of whites, 16 percent of blacks and 26 percent of Hispanics did so with someone of a. Its like New Age self-help for middle-class strivers. I realize my thinking is fucked up. I date white men because the term "model minority" grosses me out. If we're being stereotypical about it, well, I like geeky, scrawny and without muscles. I still see myself as a minority. "Let me summarize my feelings toward Asian values: Fuck filial piety. And if we're talking about this, plenty of white guys have tiny penises. So here it is: I am racist. Im actually - shudder to think - part of a trend. Fuck earnest, striving middle-class servility he says. She can't fathom that I'm a freelancer by choice and constantly laments "that economy." The physical attributes of my ideal man? Also, did I mention that Daniel Liu is fucking HOT? And with that, pretty soon comes connotations of "outsider." And I don't like that. My mother (born and raised in China) is obsessed with career "steps" and "paths" and working for this magical future that I doubt exists. I was born in Beijing to Chinese parents and emigrated to the U.S. This trend has nothing to do with skin color. I date white men because it feels like I'm not ostracizing myself into an Asian ghetto and antiquated ideas of Asian unity. Well, white supremacys greatest trick is that it has convinced people that, if it exists at all, it exists always in other people, never in us.". Crew and a healthy dash of Tommy Hilfiger and Ralph Lauren. It has everything to do with patriarchy and cultural ism and a lifestyle I grew up with and want nothing to do with anymore. I'd much rather be swept up into that beautiful land of racially ambiguous beauties. More of us are in well-paying jobs, which expose us to people outside our ethnic enclaves. And yes, I am Asian, but I'm drinking the same Kool-Aid as everyone else. And I'm sure not all Asian guys have tiny penises. My Italian cooking skills are far superior to my Chinese ones. In the Boston Review, Diaz says: "And yet heres the rub: if a critique of white supremacy doesnt first flow through you, doesnt first implicate you, then you have missed. It would be easy to say that what I'm looking for culturally doesn't come in an Asian package. But for now, I will not and will never date one of my "people.". Even among American-born people of Asian descent, only 28 percent describe themselves as "Americans.". My pale, white-bread boyfriend jokes that I'm one of the whitest people he's ever met. (Though, I'd have to sleep with some to find out for sure.) So really, not a physical thing. Dating white men means acceptance into American culture.